Why You Struggle To Set Boundaries (With Your Kids) (VLOG)

The reason your boundaries often aren’t respected is actually to do with YOU, not with the people you are trying to get to respect them.

Because it’s all about whether you truly believe you are deserving of having access and enjoying whatever is being rinfenced, and how your wounded inner child might be getting in the way (depending on what was rolemodelled to her and seen as acceptable behaviour in her by your primary caregivers).

In short, boundaries need to be erected FOR you first, before they can be put up in relation TO other people.