I Felt Alone And Desperate

When we first connected I was being triggered by my daughter and had severely disconnected from my husband. I felt very alone, desperate, overwhelmed, angry and raw every day.

I really didn’t understand why I was still feeling so much pain, despite having already worked with 4 different coaches. I wanted to be able to look myself in the mirror and love the image reflected back at me. I wanted to find my true self and learn who she was.

Since coaching, my life has improved 100 percent. I am still a work in progress but, my God, I see a completely different person in myself.

I have a much better, stronger relationship with my husband and I’m no longer triggered by my daughter who I am now able to support emotionally.

Since working with Lavinia, I catch moments when I’m with my family and feel so proud of myself - I am able to feel real joy and happiness and I now allow myself to savour those moments. I’m more connected to myself and my heart is open to connection and fun.

Inner child work is what surprised me the most during our time together – just how powerful it is. It’s amazing! My biggest learning was that it’s all down to me to change and clear my hurt and my pain (Lavinia’s truth and empathy really helped).

The coaching series was absolutely good value – it was both a fantastic journey as well as so hard. My husband sees the difference in me and it helped to save our marriage.

I just want to thank Lavinia so much for being there and for giving me hope when I really was in the trenches.

~ Paula Meehan, restaurant owner & mama, UK