“Since my coaching series with Lavinia, I have a much better understanding of what is going on when I am triggered by my son and why I used to get so angry, and I know why and where it is coming from in my life/childhood. 

I learnt that I am triggered by my son because he upsets the peace I crave in life in the exact same way that my sister would upset the peace I had created through being compliant in my relationship with my parents. 

I do still get triggered, but I am triggered less, I am less stressed and I feel somewhat calmer even when my life isn't completely calm. 

As a result of the coaching, I'm slowly learning to cultivate a feeling of peace without always expecting compliance from my son and without compromising my authentic self to comply with what others want just to avoid conflict.”

— Vicky Douxmont, USA